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3. I will be even more guarding of my emotional feelings and let them out way slower.
4. I have to make peace with who I am so that I can not be rattled by those women who
are scared, intimidated, or disapproving.
5. I have to test up front to filter out insecurities that girls have with my disability more
than before.
6. Some girls may be afraid but there are 3 billion others who may not be : )
This did and didn't come as a shock to me. I had this DYD stuff licked. I mean I got her
attracted to me, but it wasn't enough. I had mastered attraction, yet the girls can still be
spooked by my "handicap." Back to the drawing board. Biggest thing for my makeover
will be to do a deeper psychological check on a girl I develop long term feelings for. Also
revamp a strong sense of self-respect and identity. I should never have to grovel, the best
thing I could have done was when I heard she couldn't be with me because of my
"handicap" would have been to not let it bother me and to say, "Thanks for your honesty,
have a great life, bye." Well how about them apples, huh? I guess I was writing that last
bit of advice about faith for myself : )
Clifford: I want to sincerely thank you, Sean for sharing your hard earned insights with
us. For more information about Sean and his confidence products check out his website:
www.seanstephenson.com
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Steve Piccus Interview
Steve: Since the DYD seminar in Los Angeles, Hypnotica and I have had a lot of people
get in contact with us about our products, private sessions and trainings. We are currently
working on some products. Also, we are scouting out a location to present an intense
workshop, where the participants will learn how to get results by utilizing the practical
applications of what we teach. Our premise is information which is experienced creates a
strong foundation for knowledge, as it can be resourced as something familiar when
needed. Information without experience is merely information. Below is some updated
background information on us.
Hypnotica - Hypnotica has worked with and trained thousands of strippers and a lot of
other people in the sex industry. He teaches them how to see through the bullshit and
helps them get into the right frame of mind to deal with various manipulation tactics. To
this day he still works in the strip clubs where he has honed his skills to an art form in the
areas of sexual social dynamics and the ability to bed multiple dancers and keep them all
in check. Some of our clients want to improve on their skills for getting action with an
emphasis on the strip clubs. We also teach our clients some necessary survival skills, so
they can avoid getting trashed. If you want to learn how to negotiate on this playing field,
you might consider learning from someone with over 12 years experience with strippers.
Hypnotica has an insider's working knowledge of the industry. He is by far, one of the
most experienced trainers in this area, with a system of techniques that have been tested
and continue to work consistently.
Steve - I have been keeping busy with some book projects and developing some products.
The main areas of my attention/field research are currently Metaphysics, Sexual
Enhancements for Women, and Shamanistic Trance Work and Healing. Some of these
topics may be a bit beyond the scope of interest to some in your audience. Others may
find these systems provide some useful techniques to streamline a change that they want
to integrate in their life. For instance, mitigating negative thoughts & old patterns,
building positive internal states, or transferring positive thoughts (or energy) to an other
person. I am also working on editing the videos from the Entering the Sacred Grid
Workshop. This series covers some of the hypnosis and shamanistic exercises we use
when we work with people to clear out old limiting beliefs.
As a Team - Hypnotica and I have been designing and testing hypnotic sexual
enhancement protocols for years. We have been teaching women from all walks of life
how to release stress/tension from their bodies and mind through enhanced orgasms. We
test the techniques on women who work in the sex industry, primarily because they can
be the most challenging. Besides these women are usually on guard because they work in
an environment which is rife with manipulation. Which by the way, makes them perfect
Beta-test subjects for the stuff we are fine tuning. If something works well with them, it
can usually be applied to other people or situations, which are usually much more user
friendly.
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Clifford: One of the biggest things that I (and I am sure most guys who get to know you)
noticed about the way you interact with women is that you really don't put up with any of
their nonsense. And women are frequently very subtle about a lot of the games they play
but I have seen that you pick up on it immediately. Unfortunately most of us have not had
the good fortune to have had the social education you got from your early experiences
and developing that degree of sharpness is something I haven't seen in very many of the
guys I have met in my life.
I think many, if not most, guys have their biggest stumbling blocks with women who they
find very attractive as they get tongue-tied when dealing with them, or if they have been
able to get to a point where they can talk to them fairly normally, they still have their
biggest difficulty when the women they are most attracted to throw out some of their shit
tests. Other than learning through hard experience, do you have any suggestions on how
guys can develop their awareness and ability to react right away with the right responses
to women in these situations?
Steve: As far as suggestions, bottom line, the problem is not the girl or the situation. It is
about learning how to respond, rather than react to what is being presented. Many of the
clients I have worked with (including women) have a similar problem with this. They get
mired down in the details (rather than moving into a contextual shift) which further
stimulates a previous feedback loop which fires off some (seemingly normal?) antiquated
reaction.
Then they quit having fun with the process, as though someone else’s thoughts or actions
should be able to influence them or have the ability to shift into part of their identity. If
one wants to make and sustain a change to a behavior or lifestyle choice, it is paramount
that they are completely committed to the outcome without any hesitation or resistance.
Hypnosis is a good way to access this outcome when a person wants to create a change.
A client has to place a higher priority on changing the mechanism that maintains the
challenge. Rather than assessing blame or finding comfort in the familiarity of a known
quantity. It sounds crazy, but you would be amazed how many people want to hang onto
the old stuff that makes them feel bad.
Guys who get the most action... do just that, they get action. Like your buddy David.
They don’t think about it or plot out elaborate strategies. They just have fun and close a
lot of deals by focusing on their outcome, enjoying the process, and not getting mired
down into worrying about the deals they might not get.
It’s like fishing... If you don’t toss your line out you don’t catch anything... You have to
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